When you were in your preteens or in your puberty age, did you ever think that if you were going to be older, you'd be dating a lot and a lot of people would find you attractive? I used to think this a lot. Instead, I'm almost 30 now and haven't even dated or kissed any girl in my life. Makes me realize how naive I was as a kid to not know how ugly I have always been.
Did you ever think that you'd date people easily growing up? Or there would be a lot of people who would find you attractive?
What Girls Said 2
No, not at all. I thought I'd meet one decent, average guy, date for a while, and then get married. I thought sex, which was a distant, alien concept, would be after marriage of course. I felt more plain and average in my early teens, though. I didn't think I was attractive, didn't have boys after me, or any of that. I was more focused on school, wasn't concerned with my appearance, etc. I'd have relatives and family tell me I was pretty, but never gave that any thought or credit.
Then a couple years went by, I grew into myself, went to college... and all of sudden there were a lot of guys interested in me. I realized, I'm actually attractive, and there are guys who want to date me, which was a trip. So I started dating more and things, and with guys I thought were attractive too, and had to re-arrange my world view and figure out what I want.0
fuck no. i had planned to be a lone wolf, but a shy guy kinda fucked that up for me, and now i can't live without him0
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