- You should tell them
- You don't need to
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If it's only friendly encounters then their is no need to do so. But if things start getting closer to the romantic side, then you should make it known. Just so they know
You don't have to do this unless you think a guy is getting too infatuated with you. Otherwise, if you make a point of saying this constantly, you will sound pretty conceited, and it will sound like you want the guy to make a BID for your time.
You know, a lot of girls DO want guys to bid on them, so guys will think that's your game as well.
by the way, good for you. People settle into exclusive relationships far too quickly. You are doing the right thing, dating a bunch of guys before become exclusive with anyone. When you do settle down, you will be making an informed choice.
You'd probably be better off seeing one person at a time, but you should tell them and be honest with them. If you don't tell em they might think they are the only one, and then when they do find out they'll be more hurt then if you were just upfront with them, it's always good to be upfront with someone so that down the line they don't get hurt.
OMG! say them already that u are cheating, bitch, I mean c'moon they will discover it and it will be worse for you, better tell them, or they will find it themselves
Every guy who is not naive, should assume any girl he is dating but isn't monogamously with, is seeing other guys as well!
well you should make sure they know that it is just casual. Don't just assume that they feel the same way about you.
Interesting that so many people say you should tell them. I voted you don't need to. Here's what I'm thinking:
If you're just going on a date and doing friendly activities, you could be doing that with ANYONE. There's no expectation of exclusivity of any kind. On that basis, it's weird for them to have an issue with it, and if they do, they should ASK you if you are seeing other guys and if that's a problem for them they should ASK you if you'd like to be exclusive. Personally, I NEVER assume exclusivity until we've had an explicit conversation about it. And I wouldn't bother with that until there's something more sexual going on.
As long as it doesn't become too serious, and it's just meeting each other and having a chat, I think it's okay. Better not to tell him since you may scare him off.
It you get into the stadium where personal touch and kissing comes in, you'll have to stick to one guy otherwise it wouldn't be fair.
I also wouldn't let this phase last for too long, if you feel really good with one guy it's better to stick with him otherwise it may be a big blow to him if after many dates he finds out he's second choice :-( :-(
Yeah, tell them, especially if you're not serious with any of them.
If you want to make sure they no longer contact you, then go ahead.
I'd like to know if you are so I can promptly end things.
That's fine. If you haven't become exclusive.
That's really fucked up
you should at least tell him, but that's fucked. stick to 1 dude at a time. you're basically just using different guys and hoping 1 sticks. that's really not cool. yeah, you can keep your options open, but don't string a guy along thinking he has a chance with you when he has literally no control, especially without their knowing. how would you feel if you tried to impress a dude and he just left because he was secretly dating other women? and also, it just makes you seem like you're fine with basically cheating on guys as well. that's how trust issues develop.
Yea if you fill the guy that your dating in that your meeting with other guys he'll probably do a lot less for you such as taking you out and stuff but its better that he knows so that he doesn't feel like he was being used as temporary stepping stone till you found what you were looking for.
You do not need to tell them. It's their own problem if they get too attached or expect things from you. In my opinion, the sewing of other guys only needs to stop when you agree to be a couple
Guys don't like being led on... tell them that you're seeing other guys.
Just tell them that you're not looking for anything exclusive and are exploring your options, and that you totally understand if they aren't cool with that.
let them know... and see how they'll react... but i bet this won't have a good outcome at all
No not really... most likely the guys that u are talking to are dating someone else too
Yeah it might be better to let them know
You honestly don't have to.
Yes tell them so they are aware!
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