Most Helpful Girl
please don't feel insecure. i am brown (pakistani) and have dated only two guys... both of whom were white. i grew up and lived in a town that is over 95% white though. there was only 1 brown guy at my school but he had a girlfriend. also, sometimes it feels easier dating white when we're younger, because desi families make it so hard for desi kids sometimes with all the traditional beliefs.
brown guys are awesome though. most have been very kind to me. The super americanized ones can be pretty men sometimes, but I don't think they represent the average desi guy. I would honestly trust a brown guy the most out of any. Y'all are handsome, loyal, family-oriented, caring, smart, ambitious, and sweet. Don't think about it too much. Our culture can sometimes be too domineering and that pushes some people away from it out of frustration or rebellion. For others like myself, it was just because that's all that was around me and it was easier. Now that I'm probably dating to get married, I strongly prefer brown or maybe middle eastern arab.
Most Helpful Guy
Maybe because you feel insecure to white men due to that their racist caste system you guy still hold onto. Oh and don't act so surprise because Indian guys slobber over white women too.
Also this isn't exclusive to brown girls but to Asian girls. They look as white guys as status symbols, and therefore will pursue them to no end. If they get pump and dumped and never get married to these white guys they will sproute some BS about appreciating and rediscovering their culture. They will then marry brown guy when they near 30's.