Always kind of wanted to try it out but I'm a bit nervous. I usually date around my age group so finding topics to talk about isn't so hard lol also how would i make that happen? If i flirt with older men, or men in general they usually think i want to sleep with them. I want something real not just hook ups. & please dont advice online dating, i don't do that.
Most Helpful Guy
How much older is older. I ask this because some might consider a ten year age difference older? In all fairness dating older men is or rather shouldn't pose a significant challenge for you. I suggest this in the sense that there are many men who like to date younger women, so in this sense the finding of older men should be relatively easy. The greatest challenge I suspect you might encounter might become more evident the older the man is. There are definite differences in points of view as you get away from Millennials and you start to get into Gen Xers. Why do I say this? Well I'm from Gen X, and while I don't let it dictate every decision I make, I do know that we do have a certain world view if you like, and while we are hard working, dedicated and well educated we are also by in large a rather cynical bunch. The reason I mention this, is because I'm sure you can find someone and that you can also make it work and may even be able to make it work well, just be aware that the time you grow up in will impact your overall world view and some of these world views may be the source of some degree of friction amongst generational groups. Be patient and keep your eyes open, I'm sure you will find all sorts of older men who might catch your eye, just try to do a little research before you go out on the "hunt" ;-)1
Most Helpful Girl
Go to a bar where older guys eat and drink and get conversations going.1