It's even glamorized in the media, you see photos of models with a ciggarette in her mouth and those movies that glamorize alcohol use and the notion that keeps being perpetuated by the media that you need to buy "booze" to get with girls.
I know you view sobriety as boring and not drinking/not doing drugs and not smoking is for losers and those who don't do the above mentioned are "sheltered whimps" who are too "scared" to try something new and you smokers and drinkers are superior and you "know" how to have fun.
And I know you wouldn't date a guy who doesn't do drugs/smoke/alcohol because thats boring amirite and if a guy orders a non alcoholic drink on a date you will reject him on the spot cause real men buy alcohol for women amirite?
Dating is all about meeting at bars, getting drunk then having a one night stand amirite?
And I am well aware of your excuses:
- "I drink to relax after a long day"
- "It helps me socialize"
- "I only drink when I am with my friends"
- "There are more benefits of drinking than not drinking"
Also I know that people have the right to put harmful subtances in their bodies for the sake of "fun" and fitting in.