Most Helpful Girl
If it was that much of an issue to you and you are holding a grudge over it, you never should have stayed with her. It could be for multiple reasons: She may have been sexually abused and was facing trauma you didn't know about, it could be that she felt uncomfortable or pressured, it could be that she was insecure. I personally wouldn't wait that long, even being a virgin myself, but if it's so severe that you want to physically hit her... you should have stayed broken up. That's not something you think of when you truly love somebody.
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Most Helpful Guy
It's her call if she wants to have sex with you or not. It's your call whether you want to wait it out or not. And you chose to wait it out, off and on. I get why that's a frustrating wait, I probably wouldn't stick around for that either, as an adult. But she doesn't owe it to you, you're not entitled to it. What I'm confused by is, you finally had sex with her, so why are you still mad? And you shouldn't entertain the idea of hitting your girlfriend for any reason, let alone this.