I seem to attract a good amount of male attention. Don't get me wrong I'm not claiming to be like crazy good looking and all guys want me or anything like that, but I can say I'm not ugly. The thing is they always stare at me, but never come up to me. People around me say I'm intimidating, but I mean I can't really change that can I? I also know this cause guys have told my friends that they think I would be a bitch to them, but its like I've never done anything to them. I also know that people are like you go up to them, but honestly I'm extremeley shy in that sense. I just don't know what to do cause I'm tired of being single, and honestly I'd never say this outloud but I'm a good person, and I'm not ugly I'd say from the inside or outside yet I still can't manage to get a guy. So any advice on how to get them to come up to me, or for myself to be more confident in that not every guy is going to be like 'eww why is this girl talking to me' would be appreciated. And if so how do I approach a guy without looking thirsty?
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U don't hav to approach a guy. Just give him asignsl like a wave or smile or flirty look or somethin. If he knows u r slightly interested ten he is more willing to approach u. Guys get approach anxiety and r worried about getting rejected. So if u show that u r interested already he'll have more confidence to approach u. So give him a non-verbal signal that says 'Hey sexy. Come and talk to me'. And u'll have more success.0