- Yes, definitely try your strategy out! It could show him exactly what he's doing to u & how u feel!
- No, not a very good idea! It's sort of childish!
Most Helpful Guy
So. wait. first of all you sleep with people before you are even friends? I was raised to have it the other way around. Sounds like you are getting quite attatched. It's time to have a "talk," to find out if he wants a relationship that's more emotionally investing. Sounds like you are just his booty call. so it doesn't sound like he'll want one. But yeah, why play games, find out and move on if that's the case.
Most Helpful Girl
maybe it's because you text "lol" way too much... just in this text I counted 7 lol's and, frankly, it's a bit annoying. Maybe you text too much in general and he is backing off a bit to calm things down.
you should not start the game playing. It is childish and will not solve anything. And being friends with benefits before entering a relationship is nonsense. You either are friends, fall in love and get commited or you are just fucking and are friends.
If you are catching feelings (obviously) sit down together and have "the talk". Be ready to not hear what you are hoping for.