Girls, why do you get creeped out so easily?

Question

Like the title says, i mean seirously, I really can NEVER be myself because whenever i say something from the top of my mind you get creeped out, and it's usually on the tiniest stupidest things. That's messed up. Why do you get creeped out so easily?

Updates:

+1 y

I forgot to mention that i'm nothing close to be a creep. I'm like the nicest, funniest (always smiling as well), and most confident guy ever.

Answer 1

Taborlin

Xper 5

Women are (understandably) suspicious of men they don't know, especially if they approach them in a way that is more friendly than normal. It's creepy because it seems like they have ulterior motives (not saying that you do, but a lot of guys with bad intentions cover them up like this). Being nice is a good thing, but being too nice is creepy. Does that make sense?

ilNeverBegAGirlAgain

+1 y
I'm not 'too nice' in chat. But i tihnk i might have been to direct with her. I actually told her that she has the beauty that i look for in my dream girl.
Taborlin

+1 y
Yes, that is much too forward, unfortunately.

Answer 2

ilNeverBegAGirlAgain

I'm not 'too nice' in chat. But i tihnk i might have been to direct with her. I actually told her that she has the beauty that i look for in my dream girl.

Answer 3

Taborlin

Yes, that is much too forward, unfortunately.

Answer 4

Applefan1

Guru

Give us some examples of what you have said to women?

Applefan1

+1 y
Some guys do come across as creepy but also there are many girls that are bad at labelling innocent guys as creepy to
ilNeverBegAGirlAgain

+1 y
In my case, it's only 2 girls. After 2 years of me using this website. 2 girls blocked me for a reason that i never found out. And i talked with many beautiful girls around here. But the only one that mattered the most to me, ended up finding me the creepiest >.<.

Answer 5

Applefan1

Some guys do come across as creepy but also there are many girls that are bad at labelling innocent guys as creepy to

Answer 6

ilNeverBegAGirlAgain

In my case, it's only 2 girls. After 2 years of me using this website. 2 girls blocked me for a reason that i never found out. And i talked with many beautiful girls around here. But the only one that mattered the most to me, ended up finding me the creepiest >.<.

Answer 7

roxyreigns

Xper 4

it's because you're creepy.

or for a more detailed answer, we don't know you, we don't know if we can trust you, and we can't be sure you're entirely joking, because we're wary as to whether or not you actually would want to do something to us, and also likely, you just have a creepy attitude.

Oxxymoron

+1 y
Wooop MHO
ilNeverBegAGirlAgain

+1 y
i'm not the one who downvoted you i promise.

Well, in real life i don't usually get that reaction. If i had any creepness, it fades away with my smile and charisma while i'm talking to girls. But it's online is where i can't convey my thoughts and words. This girl i really had a huge crush on her and wanted to get to know her but i might have came on too strong on her. If she actually meets me or sees me it will really not be the same at all. I offered her to Skype but she didn't want to either. I'm at a loss on what to do.
ilNeverBegAGirlAgain

+1 y
@Oxxymoron

Wish you can answer me.
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roxyreigns

+1 y
@Oxxymoron the asker says you blocked and even @'d you after you blocked him that's a bit of a little warning sign to me
Oxxymoron

+1 y
He made a second profile just to virtually stalk me, not creepy at all right? @roxyreigns
roxyreigns

+1 y
if someone thinks you're creepy you back off, really, because spending a lot of time and effort trying to convince them to change their minds is just creepier. it's basically a game over screen. pack it up and you're done.
roxyreigns

+1 y
@Oxxymoron oh my god are you serious

asker be honest, how are you not seeing how you're being creepy? warning signs all over the place
ilNeverBegAGirlAgain

+1 y
i'm not trying to get her back. She clearly made it very clear that there is no chance as she attacked me negatively. I'm simply asking her "What exactly did i say that made her get creeped out and block me". That's all i wanna know. At least help us improve and get less creepy with other girls -_-.
ilNeverBegAGirlAgain

+1 y
@Oxxymoron
roxyreigns

+1 y
continuing to try to get into contact with her is creepy, making a question that's seemingly dedicated about her is creepy, making an alt account to try to keep talking to her after she blocked you is creepy.

girls are wary of guys they don't know. girls are wary of guys who've tripped an alarm, any alarm, and don't seem to respect whether or not they feel uncomfortable. every girl has different alarms. if you want to understand what girls find creepy, you need to learn to understand girls properly.
ilNeverBegAGirlAgain

+1 y
I might have went to extreme lengths this time. But you don't understand that in the 2 years i've been using this website, i never had to make a new account for a girl except once and it was a very special girl. This is the 2nd time, and a 2nd special girl.

My question is not dedicated to her, it's a general question, but she was a reason of why i asked it.

PLus, like i said. I ONLY ever wanted to just KNOW what i did before that creeped her out to block me all of a sudden. That's all i would like to know.
ilNeverBegAGirlAgain

+1 y
@Oxxymoron

Great, she blocked me QQ
roxyreigns

+1 y
you're being very creepy right now. look at your behaviour. you've been told in pretty much no uncertain terms that your behaviour is creepy, making a second account for a girl who blocked you (and you've done this TWICE? girls have blocked you more than once?) is creepy. complaining that she blocked you again like she somehow owes you an explanation is creepy. you're creepy.

you're question certainly seems dedicated to her you could've fooled me with the way you @'d her into this question when she wanted to get away with you and kept talking to her here, and apparently it was prompted by her.
ilNeverBegAGirlAgain

+1 y
Every girl thinks differently, and views things differently. The first time i did it, the girl's thinking was MORE rational than you girls. She actually thought that she might have meant something important to me that actually made me make a whole new account just for her. Long story short, we ended up getting together, skyped, have a wonderful long distance relationship together. That was a year ago though.

Your way of thinking is just different, and you think everything is creepy. that's exactly what i meant.

This girl actually meant a lot to me that she made me make a new account to actually figure out what happened. She actually had all the beauty traits of what i describe to be my dream girl (before i found out about her vulgar personality that was displayed here: girlsaskguys. com/sexual-behavior/q1782503-crying-after-sex#g0a11521303).

You girls should stop looking at everything from the 'creepy' perspective and actually start using your minds a little bit.
roxyreigns

+1 y
okay, see, this? this right here? this is creepy.

we don't think everything is creepy. we think you're creepy. we're paying attention to subtle details and little things that you can't even always verbalize, and you're setting off the alarm bells. as i said, and i made clear, some girls have different alarm bells. but girls have alarm bells for the same reason girls don't like to be alone at night in places guys would feel totally comfortable, or why girls often don't even go out alone in the first place. we can't trust every guy. simple.

you aren't even trying to make an effort to empathize or understand properly. you've just settled into "you must think everything is creepy and be oversensitive". stalking her account and then showing it off here to me and calling it her "vulgar personality" is creepy.

if you had actually made an effort to understand the emotions properly, and the thinking properly, you'd get it. but you didn't. and you don't.
ilNeverBegAGirlAgain

+1 y
I tried to. but i can't. Sorry. Do you even realize how many times you said creepy so far? Is your middle name 'creepy' or something?

Yes she showed foul personality because all i asked her and wanted to know is what i actually said that creeped her out in the beginning and she refused to answer and attacks me with full negativity.

Yes walking at night alone can be creepy, especially if u were approached by a guy while walking at night. Even us we find it creepy. but the other stuff... WHAT THE ACTUAL FUCK?
roxyreigns

+1 y
you stalked her on a second account and butted in to a question that wasn't about you when she wanted to avoid you and tried to play victim. you're making tons of attempts at little needling comments here and t hen moving on like you're getting you made them, like "is creepy your middle name", when the question at hand you wanted to know about was what exactly you were doing that made girls find you creepy, which i'm trying to get you to see and understand what exactly it is.

you didn't try. if you'd tried, you'd have googled it, you'd have looked into what girls say amongst each other about creepy guys, you'd have found the articles upon articles other girls wrote explaining it, and the underlying reasons. you didn't do any of this.

frankly she was completely in the right.
ilNeverBegAGirlAgain

+1 y
To be honest, i'l tell you that many of us guys are pretty bad at approaching girls and we could come off as creepy in a lot of times when we are really not. She might have got vibes that i am creepy, and you might have too after what i have done (gone crazy for her) but if you actually meet me in real life you would say how the fk did i find this guy creepy. This is a very common thing amongst guys and i think you girls need to lighten up a little bit when you see a guy doing something creepy and let them know about it so they can fix it. Like i said, many of us guys are REALLY nice and innocent, but we just come off as creepy because we might not know what to say or how to convey our feelings. This is what i'm trying to let you girls know and put in your mind, just give us some chances don't block us right away, it will only make us seem more and more creepy like u just saw.
Red88xxx

+1 y
@Oxxymoron why did you block me ): I'm really upset what did I do wrong?

Answer 8

Oxxymoron

Wooop MHO

Answer 9

ilNeverBegAGirlAgain

i'm not the one who downvoted you i promise.

Well, in real life i don't usually get that reaction. If i had any creepness, it fades away with my smile and charisma while i'm talking to girls. But it's online is where i can't convey my thoughts and words. This girl i really had a huge crush on her and wanted to get to know her but i might have came on too strong on her. If she actually meets me or sees me it will really not be the same at all. I offered her to Skype but she didn't want to either. I'm at a loss on what to do.

Answer 10

ilNeverBegAGirlAgain

@Oxxymoron

Wish you can answer me.

Answer 11

roxyreigns

@Oxxymoron the asker says you blocked and even @'d you after you blocked him that's a bit of a little warning sign to me

Answer 12

Oxxymoron

He made a second profile just to virtually stalk me, not creepy at all right? @roxyreigns

Answer 13

roxyreigns

if someone thinks you're creepy you back off, really, because spending a lot of time and effort trying to convince them to change their minds is just creepier. it's basically a game over screen. pack it up and you're done.

Answer 14

roxyreigns

@Oxxymoron oh my god are you serious

asker be honest, how are you not seeing how you're being creepy? warning signs all over the place

Answer 15

ilNeverBegAGirlAgain

i'm not trying to get her back. She clearly made it very clear that there is no chance as she attacked me negatively. I'm simply asking her "What exactly did i say that made her get creeped out and block me". That's all i wanna know. At least help us improve and get less creepy with other girls -_-.

Answer 16

ilNeverBegAGirlAgain

@Oxxymoron

Answer 17

roxyreigns

continuing to try to get into contact with her is creepy, making a question that's seemingly dedicated about her is creepy, making an alt account to try to keep talking to her after she blocked you is creepy.

girls are wary of guys they don't know. girls are wary of guys who've tripped an alarm, any alarm, and don't seem to respect whether or not they feel uncomfortable. every girl has different alarms. if you want to understand what girls find creepy, you need to learn to understand girls properly.

Answer 18

ilNeverBegAGirlAgain

I might have went to extreme lengths this time. But you don't understand that in the 2 years i've been using this website, i never had to make a new account for a girl except once and it was a very special girl. This is the 2nd time, and a 2nd special girl.

My question is not dedicated to her, it's a general question, but she was a reason of why i asked it.

PLus, like i said. I ONLY ever wanted to just KNOW what i did before that creeped her out to block me all of a sudden. That's all i would like to know.

Answer 19

ilNeverBegAGirlAgain

@Oxxymoron

Great, she blocked me QQ

Answer 20

roxyreigns

you're being very creepy right now. look at your behaviour. you've been told in pretty much no uncertain terms that your behaviour is creepy, making a second account for a girl who blocked you (and you've done this TWICE? girls have blocked you more than once?) is creepy. complaining that she blocked you again like she somehow owes you an explanation is creepy. you're creepy.

you're question certainly seems dedicated to her you could've fooled me with the way you @'d her into this question when she wanted to get away with you and kept talking to her here, and apparently it was prompted by her.

Answer 21

ilNeverBegAGirlAgain

Every girl thinks differently, and views things differently. The first time i did it, the girl's thinking was MORE rational than you girls. She actually thought that she might have meant something important to me that actually made me make a whole new account just for her. Long story short, we ended up getting together, skyped, have a wonderful long distance relationship together. That was a year ago though.

Your way of thinking is just different, and you think everything is creepy. that's exactly what i meant.

This girl actually meant a lot to me that she made me make a new account to actually figure out what happened. She actually had all the beauty traits of what i describe to be my dream girl (before i found out about her vulgar personality that was displayed here: girlsaskguys. com/sexual-behavior/q1782503-crying-after-sex#g0a11521303).

You girls should stop looking at everything from the 'creepy' perspective and actually start using your minds a little bit.

Answer 22

roxyreigns

okay, see, this? this right here? this is creepy.

we don't think everything is creepy. we think you're creepy. we're paying attention to subtle details and little things that you can't even always verbalize, and you're setting off the alarm bells. as i said, and i made clear, some girls have different alarm bells. but girls have alarm bells for the same reason girls don't like to be alone at night in places guys would feel totally comfortable, or why girls often don't even go out alone in the first place. we can't trust every guy. simple.

you aren't even trying to make an effort to empathize or understand properly. you've just settled into "you must think everything is creepy and be oversensitive". stalking her account and then showing it off here to me and calling it her "vulgar personality" is creepy.

if you had actually made an effort to understand the emotions properly, and the thinking properly, you'd get it. but you didn't. and you don't.

Answer 23

ilNeverBegAGirlAgain

I tried to. but i can't. Sorry. Do you even realize how many times you said creepy so far? Is your middle name 'creepy' or something?

Yes she showed foul personality because all i asked her and wanted to know is what i actually said that creeped her out in the beginning and she refused to answer and attacks me with full negativity.

Yes walking at night alone can be creepy, especially if u were approached by a guy while walking at night. Even us we find it creepy. but the other stuff... WHAT THE ACTUAL FUCK?

Answer 24

roxyreigns

you stalked her on a second account and butted in to a question that wasn't about you when she wanted to avoid you and tried to play victim. you're making tons of attempts at little needling comments here and t hen moving on like you're getting you made them, like "is creepy your middle name", when the question at hand you wanted to know about was what exactly you were doing that made girls find you creepy, which i'm trying to get you to see and understand what exactly it is.

you didn't try. if you'd tried, you'd have googled it, you'd have looked into what girls say amongst each other about creepy guys, you'd have found the articles upon articles other girls wrote explaining it, and the underlying reasons. you didn't do any of this.

frankly she was completely in the right.

Answer 25

ilNeverBegAGirlAgain

To be honest, i'l tell you that many of us guys are pretty bad at approaching girls and we could come off as creepy in a lot of times when we are really not. She might have got vibes that i am creepy, and you might have too after what i have done (gone crazy for her) but if you actually meet me in real life you would say how the fk did i find this guy creepy. This is a very common thing amongst guys and i think you girls need to lighten up a little bit when you see a guy doing something creepy and let them know about it so they can fix it. Like i said, many of us guys are REALLY nice and innocent, but we just come off as creepy because we might not know what to say or how to convey our feelings. This is what i'm trying to let you girls know and put in your mind, just give us some chances don't block us right away, it will only make us seem more and more creepy like u just saw.

Answer 26

Red88xxx

@Oxxymoron why did you block me ): I'm really upset what did I do wrong?

Answer 27

VeryDeepUsername

Xper 5

what are you saying to get girls creeped out. i don't get creeped out easily. when it comes to bugs yes but besides that nothing.

ilNeverBegAGirlAgain

+1 y
No idea, i just say what is on my mind. I don't say inappropriate words. If i found a girl pretty, i'l tell her she's pretty. If i loved her eyes, i'l tell her i LOVE her eyes. I usually don't know what creep you girls out because you never tell us, you just avoid us or block us with no explanation which really gets on our nerves because we are left off with no clue about what happened and just confused.
ilNeverBegAGirlAgain

+1 y
I've Skyped with an Editor here before, and a Master, she doesn't think i'm creepy. If anything, she thinks i'm really cute and adorable.
VeryDeepUsername

+1 y
maybe it's your bluntness. girl tend to shy away from it because sometimes it's almost like your mocking them as if you really don't mean. sometimes being blunt just weirds a person out.. i get creeped out reactions myself so i learned to tone it down a notch.
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VeryDeepUsername

+1 y
maybe your personality comes off to strong. i really don't know why though. I'm sorry I'm not much of any help.

Answer 28

ilNeverBegAGirlAgain

No idea, i just say what is on my mind. I don't say inappropriate words. If i found a girl pretty, i'l tell her she's pretty. If i loved her eyes, i'l tell her i LOVE her eyes. I usually don't know what creep you girls out because you never tell us, you just avoid us or block us with no explanation which really gets on our nerves because we are left off with no clue about what happened and just confused.

Answer 29

ilNeverBegAGirlAgain

I've Skyped with an Editor here before, and a Master, she doesn't think i'm creepy. If anything, she thinks i'm really cute and adorable.

Answer 30

VeryDeepUsername

maybe it's your bluntness. girl tend to shy away from it because sometimes it's almost like your mocking them as if you really don't mean. sometimes being blunt just weirds a person out.. i get creeped out reactions myself so i learned to tone it down a notch.

Answer 31

VeryDeepUsername

maybe your personality comes off to strong. i really don't know why though. I'm sorry I'm not much of any help.

Answer 32

Mgoods

Explorer

It's odd that everything you say, creeps people out. You have to think in terms of common denominators, here lol.

Answer 33

lePoivre

Explorer

Well what kind of things do you say?

ilNeverBegAGirlAgain

+1 y
that's the messed up thing, i never find out.

maybe ask this girl @Oxxymoron , she blocked me out of nowhere while i was having what i thought to be a nice conversation with her. Found out later i creeped the "hell" out of her.
Red88xxx

+1 y
She blocked me too ): and I don't know why ):

Answer 34

ilNeverBegAGirlAgain

that's the messed up thing, i never find out.

maybe ask this girl @Oxxymoron , she blocked me out of nowhere while i was having what i thought to be a nice conversation with her. Found out later i creeped the "hell" out of her.

Answer 35

Red88xxx

She blocked me too ): and I don't know why ):

Answer 36

pplnt

Xper 5

Maybe you're just creepy?

Girls, why do you get creeped out so easily?

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