I'm not saying that this applies for every guy out there. But I had a shitty ex and recently met this guy who I liked even more. Though I noticed how he comments and likes other girls pictures on Instagram and I didn't like it because if he's into me he's into me. When he gets rid of me then he can do that. So I nicely said this to him, just explained and he told me that he's just out of a relationship and that he's not looking for a new one and that I shouldn't think that what we have will last? Which I don't understand because why the fuck do you start going out with me DAILY, talking to me every day, I mean the guy was more into me then I into him and then says that WE ARE NOT GOING TO HAPPEN? Like then why start anything at all? Find a slut, fuck her and problem solved!
by the way I'm a really good looking girl! I'm intelligent, fun, friendly, I'm a catch and even he kept and kept repeating it. Like for real me and this guy we are quite alike. But now he just dismised me so easily? He didn't even bother to say that he wants to keep seeing me or anything what so ever? He just said that that's how he is and when I said that I don't want to continue this (which was hard for me because I really liked him but I can't fall for him and later on get kikced in the ass) he said that he's sorry to hear that and that he doesn't want to push me into anything? And that he finds me really ''cool'' but that he's glad that I ended this before one of us got hurt?
And I respect his honesty and all but could he really care less? I don't get him!!!
Most Helpful Guy
Well how long has it been since the break up? That being said I think he just missed someone being there and he did/said what he needed to to get comfort (that being you). That being said he did tell you the truth and that you don't get often. He could of just lied and kept you there until you weren't needed. I think you got away just in time. It was wrong for him to do that he should of came clean since the very start. This way you didn't have to expect anything and you would get hurt. I'm sorry it happened. On the good side I can see that you know your worth so keep that in mind. Someone will know your worth too and appreciate it. Good looking, smart, friendly and funny are all great qualities. Keep your chin up you'll find an amazing guy.1
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Most Helpful Girl
May I just point out that you're under 18 and your life has hardly begun yet? There will be plenty of other guys, both good and bad.
I feel like if the two of you never defined your relationship and he was flirting with you and other girls, that's all it was. He may have liked you, he may have not, but he didn't want a relationship so essentially he was playing with you all. It's best to just leave it in the past and let it be done with. There are plenty of other fish in the sea.1
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