Later that day I expressed to him how I love him. Right after, he asks me to buy him black sneakers. I guess I am feeling kind of used. Why would he ask me right after I express how I feel about him.
I never ask him for anything. I mean EVER !! So when he asks me for stuff I get alittle rude but I never tell him why. I'll buy it for him but get attitudes with little things later in the day. I just don't like that he asks me for things. Cus I pay for 50% of our food. I don't know I'm 22 and he's 29. I get mad cus I love him but I no he does pay a rent on his own and has little $$ to spend on extra things. That's y I don't ask for anything. But should I be ok with asking him for stuff cus he asks me once in a while? In addition it's four days until my birthday and he is asking me for shit. Hmmm I'm not feeling it. What do you guys think ?
Most Helpful Guy
If you're feeling displeasure at the relationship, talk to him and not us. You'll solve things better that way.
Most Helpful Girl
I think you two need to sit and have a talk about money. A perfect 50/50 is nigh impossible, but if you feel it's imbalanced it's something that needs to be brought up sooner rather than later.