A lot of people tell me that I shouldn't date a girl with kids but I don't mind her having kids as long as she's a good mother, doesn't expect to raise the kids as I'm only 25, and doesn't have any baby daddy drama. Fortunately or unfortunately, she has sole custody. My only problem is she works a lot and lives far away on top of raising her kids.
Now 5 years ago I definitely would have considered kids a dealbreaker but I'm more open, depending on the situation of course. It's just been unfortunate because a lot of the girls I've dated are attractive but are hard to talk to or they're nice and easy to talk to but I have no physical attraction.
What are your thoughts?
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i a future yes but right now im 24 and i dont think im mature enough for having kids or raising kids because the person i would date/marry will be my priority and i would give my everything to him and if he has kids i would live them a lot and try to be like a mom when their biological mom is not around surrounding them with love and giving them good examples especially if the live with us but for now im not ready for it.