while when below average, 'fat' girls complain about the same problem people comfort them and others around them, convincing that its wrong to judge people based on their appearance and that guys judge 'ugly' girls way too fast and they should know them first and see what an amazing person she is and that looks are not that important.
so, who guys date then? what kind of girls are 'suitable' to date, which girls are girlfriend material?
Most Helpful Guy
All women are girlfriend material looks have absolutely no bearing on the personality of the woman.
Simply what we are discussing is the openness to be approached.
If you yourself say you think you come across ass aloof. Then those signals come over as taken or not interested.
Your going to have to take yourself out of your comfort zone and approach a few guys. Many women like yourself find this very tough. You are good looking have a nice body. I shouldn't have to do anything guys should throw them selves at me. Well guys have big insecurities too. Your right they find you intimidating and fear rejection when approaching you. This is the worst thing for guys to feel and be seen by their mates. Loss of face. A huge dent in their male pride.
Most Helpful Girl
I have to yet meet a girl who was really good looking and couldn't find a boyfriend for a longer period of time. Most of them start whining if they are single for over 2-3 months.
Not so attractive people are not only plagued by their looks but also suffer from low self esteem. They genuinely need help because they hate themselves.