why many times when pretty girls complian about beng single and men being insecure approaching them, as an example, the majority of anwers are : they think you are stuck up, taken, bitch, bad personality , ets. all of this because of their pretty / hot looks.
while when below average, 'fat' girls complain about the same problem people comfort them and others around them, convincing that its wrong to judge people based on their appearance and that guys judge 'ugly' girls way too fast and they should know them first and see what an amazing person she is and that looks are not that important.
so, who guys date then? what kind of girls are 'suitable' to date, which girls are girlfriend material?
Most Helpful Guy
People just assume that attractive people are stuck up and narcissistic. People envy hot guys and girls and feel sorry for the fat boys and chubby girls, so that's why the double standard exists.
I got tired of being vilified for not giving fat girls a chance even though I hold myself to a high physical standard, like I haven't had pizza in almost two years so I can look good when the clothes come off. So I suffer through workouts and bland food to be hot, and then I'm a bad person if I won't date girls who are carrying 50 extra pounds of fat on their butts because they don't work hard.
I love attractive girls, and I know that they can have personalities that are just as amazing as less attractive girls. Be as hot as you can be and never lower your standards. The problem for girls like you is that there aren't enough guys around with the balls and self-belief to approach hot girls like you.1
Most Helpful Girl
I have to yet meet a girl who was really good looking and couldn't find a boyfriend for a longer period of time. Most of them start whining if they are single for over 2-3 months.
Not so attractive people are not only plagued by their looks but also suffer from low self esteem. They genuinely need help because they hate themselves.0