I told my brother about this guy (who is white) that I have a crush on. My brother told me that's self hate because I don't want my kids to be black. The thing is I don't want kids with him, when I have kids I want it to be with a black man. I just like this guy, as of now. I'm only 14. I'm not even worried about kids, to be honest. I told him that, he said it was still self hate because all of the black guys at my school and I like a white one. What do you think? Please don't call my brother names too, because he's reading with me.
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I'm a black American.
Out of all honesty, it TOTALLY depends on the reason WHY one interracially date. I do it based on being culturally open and increasing my odds of finding a match.
Honestly I feel your brother is tripp'n over nothing. You like who you like, this whole "stick to your own kind" thing is some outdated shit. :)2