Growing up, I went through a lot, which led to anger problems later in my life due to holding on to stuff. I used to get angry with my girlfriend and fuss back with her instead of being quiet. Now, I've let go of everything that bothered me in my past. It no longer interferes with my daily life. I changed for myself and for the relations. Now that I've changed, she trying her best to do things to try and get me to go backwards and fuss. I refuse to do that and I've told her that what she's doing is not going to work. Why is she doing this crazy stuff?