I am 19 and I've never had a boyfriend because of how shy I am. This used to bother me but now I don't really care anymore because I've realized that I'll only find a good relationship if it happens naturally and not because I'm looking for one. Guys have liked me before but never actually asked me out. Is this because they don't want to date me because they don't think I would be fun or talk to them, or because my shyness makes them not like me enough to ask me out?
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Maybe they think they are not good enough. I have heard from a 22 year old girl recently that guys often have hang ups..
They fear rejection too of course.
You could show you are open to a chat with your facial expression and body language, people have a natural ability to gauge the approachability of someone else.
Due to my naturally open body language, people approach me all the time and ask for directions, money ^^ , okay I dress well, so they can tell, and all kinds of things.
Try this social experiment : Go to a Starbucks and observe the people at this place. If there is a guy whose looks you like, ask whether you can sit with him. Keep observing him and guess what he might want to talk about : If he's reading a newspaper for example , talk about the news, if he plays on his smartphone, ask him about technical details and stuff ^^ .
Fewest people will say no ^^0