Last week i went out with the guy i am close to (alberto) and my cousin (lana). At first everything was all cool then they started talking and i was left alone there, told them i needed to get something then they said after this waited a bit until its finished then they were about to get some more. I texted the guy i was really close to few years back (Josh). Told them that i need to pick him up, they were okay with it.
On our way to the car told alberto i was in a bad mood then he just walked back to lana. I was so pissed i walked faster. No they didn't catch up with me.
Went to this place downtown ny after i pick up josh, and yes they were talking again. Me and josh were talking and he said "no wonder you're in a bad mood". When we were about to pay i payed for mine and alberto actually paid for lana. I was like "the hell?" didn't say anything about this to him though.
When we were walking to the car I walked with josh told him that I want to sit with him and he said "its okay hey he's just looking for friends".
What do you think about this whole situation?
- Alberto might like lanaVote A
- Alberto was just being friendlyVote B
- OtherVote C
- See resultsVote D
Most Helpful Guy
The way things are going, I think there's no need to 'cut-ends' with him, just men in particular (a bit of generalisation here) tend to not really understand why women get upset, so unless you made it obvious why you were upset (which you shouldn't have to do) then he'd probably not get the point. Talking to him might help but he can always play his way out, but I'd say if you feel uncomfortable about it try talking to your cousin first and then try explaining things to him if it still drags on. If Alberto was always an outgoing overly friendly guy towards women, this could be the normal but in my opinion, if you two went on a date and he so much turns a blind eye towards you then he obviously isn't worth what what I see.0
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Most Helpful Girl
I am picking apart, Part by Part, with the story before my eyes with all he Guys. It seems that with Albert and Lana who First were getting 'Cozy,' you then Text Josh to join the Threesome here, dear, and Now... A comfy foursome.
I think with Them Both right from the 'Three' Beginning of the Beguine, of Leaving You rudely Out, you had a right to be mad right then and there and Now, with Josh, who I feel was not a fifth wheel but came along at the right time with your Text, Joined you in time so Now... Everyone has someone in mind.
In lamen's terms, Alberto and lana, who She is blood, it seems with her even, that Blood isn't thicker than water, she kind of took Alberto under her own eye and you all ended up with another guy. Alberto even paid her way and Paved the Way for her as well, I can te4ll.
Stick with Josh now and move on, sweetie. No more Three Musketeers to my own ears And.. Eyes.
Good luck. xx1
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