- Yes, I'd consider it
- Yes, if I was in love with them
- No, they should focus on their child
- Maybe/it depends
Would you date someone who had a baby?
What Guys Said 25
Yes it matters how they became single because I'd want to know what kind of mess I'm walking into if I were to consider dating them.
If she got pregnant, told the dad, he didn't want it, she tried to force him into parenthood, so he left, and she became single? She can fuck herself because I'm not going to fill the role as the father figure in her child's life, and that's what she'd be expecting.
If she got pregnant, told the dad, he was ok with it, things didn't work out, he left, she became single? I wouldn't judge her right away but would still try to get to know that situation a bit more since he could have left for various amounts of reasons.
If conditions were as perfect as they could be and she didn't expect me to raise or pay for her kid, then I'd maybe consider it. I love kids, so I wouldn't be bothered having the kid around, and my personality isn't that of wanting to spend quality alone time with people outside of sex, so it's not like the kid would 'get in the way'.
She'd really have to understand that I'm the one who decides whether or not I want to take an active role in her child's life, though, and that I'm not a source of income for raising a kid I had no part in making.
I picked no. Too much to deal with right off the bat. I am interested in getting to know her. Not her and her baby. Can't date her and ignore the baby. Since it is a baby they need constant care. Not interested in dating someone who needs to care for a infant like that. Can't rely on a babysitter every time. Plus, it doesn't matter how great we are, this baby will naturally always be more important to her than me. That means I will always have to compete for time and love and I will always be second-best. If the father is still around, like it or not, he will still be in the baby's life somehow. So the father will still be in the picture to some degree. I am not interested in being the in the middle of that drama. But basicially not interested in being with someone who is exhausted at the end of the day from being a single mom taking care of baby and then too tired or little time left to be a girlfriend.
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It would matter how they became a single parent to be honest. But the fact she had the baby wouldn't make any difference to me.
ONLY if the biological dad and his mom were 100% out of the picture.
I love babies.. also, if she were young , beautiful and a good person, I don't see a reason not to :D.
Yes definitely, I've always been fond of little children and starting a family so it'd be a plus for me. Even more so if I loved her a lot.
Date someone with a baby? I think so. Marry someone with a baby? I'm not so sure.
no not at my age but most people would consider if they are over 30.
No, I wouldn't. I want to have my own kid some day.
No. What good are they to me?
I can't resist that adorable bow tie.
Don't think it's best at my age.
Only and only if I myself had one.
yes i would also its a cute baby
I've tried but rarely did they see it through.
Only if it happened to be mine.
At my age and position in life, no, I would not.
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What Girls Said 15
No. And not just because I feel they should focus on the kid.
1. I don't want kids - ones that I've produced or otherwise.
2. I want a spouse who is waiting to have sex for marriage and the presence of the kid kind of makes that completely impossible.
So no. Sorry, not interested.
I would consider it depending on the circumstances. There's one guy I know who had a baby with a woman who decided one day to go off birth control to get one and he had no idea what she'd done. If it was something like that then yeah.
I would consider it and definitely wonder how he came to be a single father since those aren't too common. However, I'm too young to be a candidate for motherhood right now so I would have my reservations.
As long as he was a good father, and he has a healthy relationship with the kid's mother, I see no reason not to.
Don't have kids/Don't want kids. Why would I take on another person's child when I don't even want my own? I have turned down men because they have children and I am honest about it.
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The baby should be most important in their life and they should vet and choose their SO's VERY CAREFULLY.
Been there done that. Not a good experience especially dealing with a baby momma
I'm not raising a kid that isn't mine, so no, and i don't even want kids really.
Maybe/it depends if i liked him and he liked me than i would go for it.
it depends on how much i like the person
You do know that a baby is a kid right? But nope I would not.
No. I'd know I'd never be their number 1 priority ever. And I'd really like to be priority number one for at least a while.
I date dads quite a bit, but believe the first year or two is better spent focusing on the little one than dating.
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