In a relationship, but can't let go of my ex?
What Guys Said 1
It's not going to get easier the more time goes on. Matters of the heart don't simply go away. You're mind and heart are still hurting, that's obvious, and all the thinking you are doing is progressively going to make things worse and ultimately make you drift apart from your current boyfriend. Which is really not fair to him at all. It looks to me that you're leaving the door cracked open, within yourself, to your ex. That's not closure, that's not moving on. in my opinion, you need closure because it appears you don't believe you have it. You should be comfortable enough to contact your ex to converse with him and ask him if he's still got feelings for you. If he says no, which he probably will out of respect and for the situation, respond by saying you don't know if you could say the same. If you open yourself up to him like that and he still brushes you off, it should be your clue to move on. But if he begins to open himself back up to you, then you know his feelings are mutual and you can try to find out if it's still possible with him. You may be thinking, this is cruel to your current boyfriend? No... what's cruel is being with him with the feelings you have right now for your ex. What's cruel is being with him but loving someone else. I lived through a situation like that, my girlfriend was still in love with her ex, that is extremely painful and when she left me to go back to him, though it hurt at the time it turned out to be the best thing that ever happened to me looking back at it now.
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