Thats why I have convinced myself that talking to girls is a waste of time because 1. They don't reply unless you look "attractive" and 2. They just assume you are a creepy pervert or make other baseless assumptions about you. Please make up your minds do you want people to be friendly or do you want people to be mean and angry? Because you seem to be creeped out by friendlyness and when I say friendlyness I mean telling jokes and saying hello.
This is also why I refrain from joining online dating sites because no matter what I say or how I present myself I will get ignored. Congratulaitions feminists you have won your war on men, you have succeeded in instilling fear in women and brainwashed them to beleive every man is a creepy pervert unless they look like brad pitt.
Most Helpful Girl
You make it sound like it HAS to be either or. What if we don't want you to be friendly or mean? Like we just want to not be acknowledged?
I always respond and I troll them back. IF they're being creeps. You send me a dick, I'll message "sword fight!" And send a pic of a bigger dick.
But if you're being decent, I'll reply honestly.
I've never tried online dating but I don't think I'd like it because it's so impersonal. I need to be weird with you in person. There's too much that can't be conveyed through screens and messages.1
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Most Helpful Guy
I don't know what happened to the follow option for questions. I'd like to follow this question with great interest.
If a woman unjustly regards you as a creep, my advice would be not to give a shit. On the other hand, if MANY women regard you as a creep, it might be fruitful to examine the way you approach them.
Although some deny it, it's true that some women do disregard a man as a creep based solely on the way he looks. That's because 2 million years of human evolution has evolved us that way. It makes sense. Sperm is cheap, but having a baby isn't. If she has a baby with someone who isn't genetically desirable, she's out of action for months, perhaps even years, and it takes years to raise it. Women are evolved to be highly selective and suspicious of who wants to mate with them. Where I take issue with some women (please note I said "some") is that they cannot seem to maintain a civil tongue when rejecting someone who has approached them, even when it's done politely. For some reason, they have to voice their disgust, even when a man approaches them politely and respectfully.
I don't look like Brad Pitt, but women don't call me a creep in person. To the best of my knowledge, they don't do it behind my back either. If they do, I don't care.1