Most Helpful Guy
Look missy... first of all, I want to say that there are A LOT of guys out there who will treat you better, period nuff said. Next is, a good boyfriend will always take care the needs of her girlfriend, anything to make her happy always, period again. Third is, I worry of his cheating past. If you add his behavior now and relate it to his history record... I will surely have strong doubts. Lastly, communication is the most important part of a relationship, and he often skips it? Worse is blame YOU? what the. So ask yourself... is this what you want for yourself? Because if I am your boyfriend... you'll never feel this long that it reaches the point that you ask help from strangers. Im sorry1THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE
Most Helpful Girl
First of all, you're hardly one year apart, he's not even considered "older". Second, you sound like you're dating an asshole. It's not my place to say really, but your relationship, based off what you're saying, sounds not so great.
Let me tell you about my relationship and boyfriend. My boyfriend (also several months older than I) prioritizes my comfort, happiness, and wellbeing. He cares. Your boyfriend doesn't. My boyfriend cares about how I feel about things and my opinions and preferences on things. And vise versa. We have a very loving and strong relationship because we communicate but we also actually fucking listen to each other.
You're trying to communicate with your boyfriend, but he's just laughing things off and getting all immature and you state he has a history of cheating... yeah. He's not the ideal guy, nor does he deserve your efforts.
Honestly, I know this just went from 0 to 100 but I wouldn't be wasting my energy on someone like him. He's sounds so dumb lmao.1THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE