There's a girl that I'm attracted to, in my management class. So far, we've talked like twice during the management class and that's all. I want to ask her out, but being shy do not help me out to go ask for her number out of the blue.
I need some time to be prepare mentally and physically to ask her number, but if let say I wait one month before asking her number, is it too long?
Thank you for your help.
Most Helpful Girl
I consider that way too long. You're just making excuses in order not to approach her sooner than that because you're scared of the possibility of being rejected. You are going to face many rejections in life, but you should always find the strength to continue, instead of cultivating your fears.
Most Helpful Guy
Instead of having a fixed time period before asking her for her number, try to set specific goals in term, s of how much you need to talk to her. Start off with some small talk, and see if she responds in a positive way. If so, then ask her number on some pretext, like "Hey, you mind sharing your number? We take the same classes, so we can help each other out when needed" or something like that.