Most Helpful Guy
Listen girl... Get yourself some professional counseling and or psychiatric help!
Nobody can help you but yourself... Or professionals that are paid to help those like you... If you're not happy with yourself nobody else can be, likewise... if you're not happy with yourself, no one else will meet your expectations... And that is no way to live for anyone. Depression is a serious subject, you need to get yourself out of it before you pursue a relationship with someone... Because you can not find happiness or depend on someone else to provide you with that happiness, that something you have to be able to develop for yourself.
The thing is... In today's day in age you should not have to suffer... Just get yourself to help that you need!
Most Helpful Girl
No one is obligated to help another person with their depression, not even if they're dating. It's a mental illness that the person themselves has to deal with. It is the other person's right to determine what is right for them, and if they want to be in a relationship with someone who suffers depression or not. He isn't bad for doing what he did, and you aren't bad for having depression, it's just how it works out.