Please help :(
Most Helpful Guy
I don't think you're overreacting, but if he always gives you flowers unexpectedly, and he felt bad about the whole thing, I think you should give him a pass this time. Isn't it better to have him surprise you and know that he's thinking about you at any given moment?
You're gifts for him were really sweet though. You remind me of my first girlfriend. I totally took her for granted. What an ass.
Most Helpful Girl
I think you have a right to feel upset. It doesn't seem like he made any effort whatsoever to make you happy or prioritize your date. And it's extra weird since it sounds like he used to put effort into things like getting you flowers. So why wouldn't he do it on your anniversary?
I think you should talk to him about it and let him know how it made you feel that he didn't seem excited about your anniversary. See what he has to say. Maybe he was super busy and stressed about something else, or maybe there was some other reason why he got distracted or didn't have time to think about it. No matter what, it will make you feel better to know what was going on.