Most Helpful Guy
It's just a natural thing to do if both adults under consent, at the end of the day, a date is created to have fun, finally having an opportunity to let the sex to happen at the end of the night. The quote ''men can't control themselves'' is just an act of pushing too hard, trying to ''convince'' her to have sex without social calibration. Personally, I wouldn't stay any longer after 3rd date onwards if i found the girl not enthusiastic about me, or consciously holding herself back physically. Let me tell you ya, I have had an experienced where a girl showing multiple signs of interest, (ie touching me a lot), but she wouldn't even kiss me for 2nd date. I thought, ''that was hell lot of energy time being spent on her... i don't deserve to be with someone who doesn't go through his or her feelings.'' Love should be easily and effortless
Most Helpful Girl
It depends on the people you choose to date. Some people are eager to wait for a longer period of time before they start expecting you to put out.