I'm wondering because a lot of guys told me they liked girls who are confident, but they dated a shy girl.
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Well, it depends on the girl. I've dated more 'shy' girls than not, and in most cases, the girl who was shy at first turned out to be confident when they got comfortable around me. By confident, I don't mean extroverted and sociable... I mean that they know who they are, aren't afraid to talk to me about anything, and hold themselves in good esteem. Shyness can make a woman a flower that opens with the sun. Closed and quiet in the beginning, and blossoming to her full beauty as she grows more comfortable around you.3