And I feel like a bitch because it kills me to know that he will be happy with someone else.
Am I too crazy or or obsessed?
Most Helpful Guy
You fucked up and the only thing you can do now is learn from your mistakes and move on.
And it's natural to hate the idea of him dating someone else, but that's something that will go away with time, and you should try to avoid thinking about it if possible.
Most Helpful Girl
It's actually terrible to say "if I hadn't done that, we would be together", because couples who genuinely value each other, and love each other, show forgiveness, and fight to be with each other. You two were not going to last if you both couldn't discuss what happened, forgive, and determine the best approach to make the relationship better, together. If however, you did something really hurtful or disrespectful to him, then you didn't value him enough in the first place not to do that.