When I say nice guy, I don't mean a sissy who is ugly and unattractive. I just mean a decent looking guy who is a gentleman, kind hearted, and believes in treating women very well. How do you feel when you get constantly rejected or cheated on, and then you see all these hot looking women with chavs and ass holes? Is it soul destroying? I admit that it hurts like mad. It just feels like there is no justice and everything is hopeless. The only time I had lots of women come after me is when I worked on the doors as a bouncer. But I'm not on the doors anymore. If you look at these ass holes and bad boys who are in gangs, most of them usually have hot women with them. It makes me feel sick with jealousy. How does it make you feel?
Most Helpful Girl
It should make you feel blessed, you're not attracting women that don't have their priorities in line.3
Most Helpful Guy
Hot women are not the same as good women.
I've never had a good woman turn me down for a cruddy guy, but sometimes they choose good fellows other than myself. Nice women won't settle for less than nice men; any woman who does obviously has issues of her own.
Seeing whether a woman is appreciative of good character in men is one of the first parts of my elimination process, so it a girl prefers cruddy guys to nice guys and doesn't want to be with me for it, I consider it a dodged bullet when she goes with said cruddy guy.0