I am more like his family. I drink, I party, I wear nice clothes & take pride in my appearance. I get my hair, nails & eyebrows done regularly. I like pretty mainstream TV shows & music. I like a clean house, light colours, nice interior design, light & minimal clutter.
My family are awkward and nerdy. Wear daggy clothes, watch nerdy shows & listen to orchestral music for fun. When his family are lunching & partying mine are at church or playing in orchestra. My dad has terrible personal hygiene, my dogs smell, my house is cluttered.
As much as they are my family, I don't want them to reflect badly on me.