I recently got together with a guy who had wanted to hookup but I told him I dont like to do that unless Im in a relationship. And a few weeks later he asked me out. And he's in a different state but was coming home in a little more than a month. We went from talking all the time to like nothing. And he only talked about sexual things really. It the realm of things I guess he only wanted to be with me for sex. Thankfully I caught it before I got played and told him friends is the only option. Is this all guys want these day? Is being a relarionship that sucky? I mean i'd rather not burden guys with my want for them cause I guess that would be teasing, It may sound prude and weird but I just dont do hookups. If were together then of course all day everyday. But I'll keep to myself if this is all guys want.
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You made the right choice. Don't let that one guy, or a few guys you've ran into in life, ruin the image for all men. Guys are different, just like girls, and the one you want is out there and more common than you may think. I know because I am one of them. There are plenty others too.1