- Nope, your style is your style
- Yes you must follow by the book
Most Helpful Girl
Nope, your style is your style.
Most Helpful Guy
That's a good question. There IS, in a sense.
I wouldn't call it a formula, more an approach. You've got to be self-aware, yet basically fearless. You've got to accept and actually BE yourself, provided that self is something you've actively chosen--a product of thought, self-respect and openness.
This enables you to find not only true love, but true bliss. There's no pretending, no pretense. There's no fear or hiding. It's real love, man. I've known few people who have ever experienced it.
Here I'm reminded of what Patrick Dennis wrote: “Life is a banquet and most poor bastards are starving to death.”