About a month ago i lost my job because the company went through a rough patch and me and 30 other people lost our jobs! and everytime i see his parents first thing they ask is "Have you got a job yet?" but its way they say it in such a sly tone of vocie making me feel belittled i won't even tell my boyfriend if ii have an interview anymore because i know he will tell them and if i don't get it they'll make me feel bad about it!
Recently my boyfriend wanted a tattoo and my dad is a tattooist and has done my tattoos and was going to do my boyfriends tattoo and a cheap price until his mum ask is my dad was clean? i told her yeah he is, he has done my tattoo's and wants get his own shop and fully trained (which isn't a lie) and she just turned to me and said "I'm not being funny but i'd much rather him go to a shop" as if my dad was going inject him with drugs or something! It was like she was making out he was dirty and if he was that would make my whole family dirty! Most of time she speaks to me like shit! She speaks to her own son like shit!
Other weekend when i spent the night my boyfriend always asks for pemission and got their permission but when i got there both his mum and her partner asked me at different times "Are you sleeping over?" and made me feel like i had just walked in and demaned to sleep while their guest who living their temporarily can have their girlfriend over as many times as they want!
I feel like if this carries on i will end it! I won't be in a relationship with someone when their family doesn't accept me! They have made me feel very unwelcome and unwanted!