@KDA20 You made some good points. Never thought of the pros in that sense...However the reason I wouldn't date a bisexual is not because I'd fear he would cheat. It's because I would worry I won't be able to satisfy all his needs. Now I know I can't possibly 100% satisfy even a straight guy's needs. He maybe totally into me, but there is variety out there. Taller women, curvier women, slimmer women, blondes, redheads... and I know on occasion he might be curious to know what it feels like to be with those other types of women, even if he doesn't act on it. Now this I can accept. But when he is bi this difference from what I have to offer is so much more significant. I don't think I can handle that knowledge...
Thanks for MHG
@Caramel_creme Bisexuals are attracted and can see themselves in long lasting relationships with either a girl or a guy, but if a bisexual is willing to settle down with you, there is little to no chance they will allow themselves to feel unsatisfied. The whole point of a long-lasting relationship is to be fully satisfied and happy with yourself and your partner, so your fear of not being enough for a bisexual person is not one you should worry about. People who are so sure of their identity and what they want in life will not settle for less than what they see as perfect.
Wooo! 👊 Ik that's right
@Realfire22 Lmbo! thanks girl. :D
You're welcome 😝😝😝😝
You both are awesome! I totally agree! 🐓💨
@Rahdle Lol thank you. You're also awesome. :P
I wonder if you like women? Do you watch lesbian porn?
Why is it disgusting?
@RussianGirlxo Because it's an opinion. @alfonsosloan45 no not at all. I don't watch porn at all I think it's gross. I checked it out one time and started gagging. I can't deal with that.
Lol @ gagging XD
@Lonewolf_1296 Lmbo. xDDDD
How is it disgusting to be bi? Explain this to me.
@BellePepper I'm really sick of you commenting on my stuff so you're blocked no. It's an opinion deary. I think it's fucking disgusting.
nah okay i understand you think its disgusting but like I'm genuinely curious to why? i think soft grapes are disgusting because they make me thing of biting into fish oil pills and i hate it.
@nooriginality Because I'm straight and I only want a man who is straight. Booties are very filthy places and I don't want to be with someone who would do things with something so utterly disgusting. Also, I would view him as less of a man. Penises don't belong in butt holes and with other penises. I think it's disgusting because that's not normal.
It's considered normal by the majority of people, you are in the minority honey. I am not judging you as you have your own views but don't shove it to peoples faces.
@MrDetermined I didn't shove anything in anyone's face. My opinion was asked for so it was shared, that's not forcing anything on anybody. And no it is a fact that homosexuality is NOT normal because men and women were made for each other. We were made to reproduce meaning the pairing of a male and female. It's fucking nature not an opinion. An opinion is calling homosexuality or bisexuals normal. When no it's not.
@Cookies_AndMilk Lol humans weren't made, we evolved. Plenty of other species have a substantial amount of homosexuality. Its useful to have members of the gene pool which exist but don't contribute to future generations. Its also an adaptation to reduce competition when there are significantly more men than women or vice versa. It helps to reduce competition and thus leads to fewer problems in a society or group. Its completely natural and a logical consequence of evolution. Its normal because it happens all the time in nature and you're simply ignorant if you're not aware of that. You're probably religious and you think that God hates fags or whatever. But why did God make so many species with so many homosexual members if he hates homosexaulity so much? The bible only says being gay is wrong because it was written by superstitious peasants who included their own biases. Next you're going to be telling me that slavery or treating women like chattel is ok since its in the bible.
I'd say I absolutely wouldn't just becuase its not for me. But I would call sexuality disgusting. ... You do know that there a Bi people, who are abstinent no? Who don't touch booty? You've also likely dated a guy who has had and enjoyed anal sex with woman right? But then again, porn is apparently even too much for you, so there's my answer. I've read everything you've said in the hopes that it might so a little less one dimensional, yet nothing. Everything thus far has been extremely ignorant. Work on that.
@serp777 You're getting blocked because I can't deal with you. I'm an entitled to my opinion which still stands. It's disgusting and I know for a fact it isn't normal. @Vox22 if anything you're the ignorant one. You all are just pawns haha good luck with that.
Lol I got most helpful? Thank you. :D
Okay. I can see where every one is coming from here , and personally, yes I would date a bi person , being bi or being gay isn't something that someone should look down on someone else for, people can belive in evolution or god , personally as a Christian I can know what the true word of god is, god does not hate gay people, and in the bible it states planely , he has died so that of our sin's would be forgiven, he is a beyond omnipotent god, a strong and powerful god. H gives us freedom but we are children he knows who we are, he created us and put us on this earth, a beyond omnipotent, beyond infanant god, beyond time, has forgiven us for all of our sins , we make mockery of his legacy, his death on the cross was for us. Not just me or you or that guy who is reading and judging* all of us, he loves all of us for we are his children, the difference between a bi person and straight and gay... that is who they are. God would never hate them for be the, he is our father and loves us
FINALLY SOMEONE HAD THE GUTS TO SAY THIS!!! 😆 I agree!! 👌
An that. I respect every ones opinions. I would never try to change who a person is, or look down on them for it. I wouldn't shove my religion down someone's throat, I always wish the best upon mine enemies, those who would seek to harm or speak sin of my lord, I would defend mine Lord but that is my opinion, one can evolve and another can be made, the way you look at anything, the only thing that sets all humans appart is what they feel, as a son of God , I know I will be loved by my father no matter what I do , and as son of god, i also love all my brothers and sisters. But that is all I should say, halt thy words , less your tongue strikith thine heel
@izzyrose36 Did I say anything about God? I'm not shoving my faith down anybody's throat. People assume if you're against something it's because you're "religious" and they throw that word around like an insult. I had an opinion, my opinion was ASKED for. I'm not forcing anyone to agree with me. I don't give a care who likes it and who doesn't. It was a REQUEST and I shared it.
He assumed because people who are against homosexuality are usually religious extremists. Yes you have a right to your opinion but people have the right to disagree with your opinion and call you ignorant. I honk it is quite immature of you to pout and block anyone who doesn't share your opinion, you need to grow the fuck up and understand that not everyone agrees with you.
I meant think not honk
@Eric644 I understand that very well. And that's fine if you think I'm ignorant, I think you're also ignorant.
i would only date a bi girl not a guy im not bi because the question said guys and girls so no for the question
I am bisexual and if you're not into it, you aren't into it. We can have different views, and you can shit on my views, just don't get pissy If I shit on yours. Guys are hot, Girls are hot. Doesn't make me a hoe or a pornstar. I've been in a healthy four year relationship with a man, but that doesn't make me straight. i still find females attractive sexually. Therefore I'm bi. It's not gross to me!!!
@wishbone_999 The question is being addressed to guys and girls, it isn't asking if you would date both guys and girls.
@Kenzie245 And I care about you why? It's nasty that's my opinion. Post you're own individual one. If you don't care about my views why respond? I fail to see how that affects you in any way.
I understand that you think it's disgusting and that's your own opinion and all, but what is your reason for thinking that? Hopefully you aren't bisexual (or your reaction would be absolutely ridiculous), but what is wrong with those who are? Do you think that homosexuality in general is 'disgusting'? Or is it just the thought of dating someone who is more open-minded, grounded, and confident than you are?
@artist3363 If I was bi I don't know why I would think that's disgusting. I'm straight and I think it's disgusting because I think homosexuality is disgusting. I don't want a man who's fruity in the booty. Just because a person is sexually depraved doesn't mean they're more confident, and grounded than I am. And open mindedness doesn't mean acceptance of any and everything that flies by.
Bisexuals aren't sexually depraved at all, I'm not entirely sure where you got that from. As I said, it's totally your opinion, but I think you should try to be a little bit more politically correct about it. Instead of saying "it's disgusting" you should just say it's not your thing. The main reason you got such a terrible reaction from everyone is because you were too vulgar and overall not accepting. Your immediate and strong repulsion to the question was (as true as it may be to you) frankly, offensive and unnecessary. I hope that in the future you will take into account the feelings of those who cannot control what feels right to them, and take measures to avoid insulting people.
@artist3363 No, being "politically correct" is what's wrong with this world. Thanks for the advice, but I'm happy with how I am.
Sorry to say, but it's not being "who you are", it's being a bitch
@artist3363 If that's what you think that's fine. One person's opinion on the internet isn't going to bother me lol.
How is it disgusting
"Booties are very filthy places and I don't want to be with someone who would do things with something so utterly disgusting" Yes there is no anal sex going on in heterosexual relationships.
@Tycwep Not in mine. Which means my statement still stands. I don't want a fairy as a partner I want a man. People that sleep with the opposite sex are sick in the head. And this is a fact of science that these people have mental deformities. Instead of treating them like they have a sickness we tell them it's okay when it's not nor will it ever be. So get away from me with that 'love has no gender' garbage. My opinion should have no affect on you, I'm not going to date you so you don't need to worry about me.
Unless of course you are with a guy that fucked some other girl up the ass.
@Stuckintime Luckily I'm not and we're going to get married so no worries there. I don't understand what everyone's problem is. If you're not dating me then you shouldn't give a damn about how I feel.
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100%? How do you mature your straightness?
@TheLuckyOne1 by the fact that I'm 0% attracted to other females
@ElissaDido u go girl! ✋
@Realfire22 Haha thanks chica ;) <3
You're very welcome
Why dose it matter to you weather he is 100% strait or just 50% or any other percentage for that matter? just curious to know your answer.
@Realistic07 because Inlove very manly men so the idea of him being attracted to other males is very off putting
See i never understood that masculinity and for that mater femininity have nothing to do with ones sexual preference i have meat gay men that are extremely masculine and lesbians that are extremely feminine as well as bisexual men and females and their sexual preferences have never been the depiction of who they are. Keep masculinity and femininity are personality characteristics and really can not be inherently associated with ones sexual preferences.
UGH. LET'S STOP PLAYING GAMES. LET'S DO THIS.
@Thesis_Something Do what >< ?
tell me about tunisia :)
@Thesis_Something Well, it's a North African country with lots of nice beaches haha why?Where are you from?
Just lame ass Canada.
@Thesis_Something Canada is cool!
TRUE. BUT ALSO, REALLY BORING. AHAH
@Thesis_Something I don't have this impression about Canada tbh
ugh. HOW DO YOU SEE US?
@Thesis_Something like a fun country, open minded, nice people in general.
WEIRD. YOU PROBABLY DIDN'T GROW UP HERE THEN.
You don't speak for me!!! I would have a long term relationship with a bi girl
apperantly people hate the the truth... go figure
People are awful. I can't.
At least it helped me realise the positive opinion I'd had about a few gagers were wrong so I know who to avoid now :P
Insecurity is a beast, darling.
Not sure what you mean by insecurity.
I asume because most people think that bisexuals wouldn't be ready for commitment and would be searching for a quickie of the other sex or the same sex, while being in relationship with a person.Though In the end, I would not date a bisexual myself , so.. yeah xD
The ignorance persists in these comments. I can't believe people still think that being bisexual means you're a whore who won't commit.
Like I said, the responses to this are disgusting. No matter what your justification is, the assumption that someone's sexuality means that they're more likely to cheat on you or that they're promiscuous or anything like that is incredibly harmful and an awful way of treating other people. I don't care whether you think you're in the right or not or how prettily you can defend yourself, it is not an acceptable way to behave and it's absolutely disgusting. I'm not surprised by what people are saying, I'm just disappointed that so many people have such disturbed views.
These people saying no just because "it's disgusting", they're the ones making me sick, they're the ones dusgusting! F**king ignorant people these days...
Thank you! I'm in the same boat here and finally someone said something! I feel like a lot of these people are just rude in general.
I'm glad to see that you now know you're not alone :P
I know!!! So many ignorant people here. I'm straight and would never sleep with a guy but why hate on people who are gay, I thought we were pass this. I've dated bi girls and I've dated Kinsey 5 lesbians aka bicurious lesbians, their sexuality doesn't pose a problem to me, as long as a girl likes me and respects me for me who the fuck cares, these comments really shocked me, I thought we moved further than that as a society but then again many gagers do live in third world shit holes
BUT if he would be loyal to only me, and he would REALLY love me , then what I said could change
Well, not really, being bisexual has nothing to do with a lack of loyalty. You wouldn't date ANYONE with a lack of loyalty anyways, so that doesn't really, or shouldn't, apply.
@nyxxxxx yeah I thought about it afterwards and I think you are kinda right.. If u r loyal will stay loyal.. If not, well that's coz of you, not coz of your preferences
You hit the nail on the head.
Bi guys don't turn gay and leave a girl for a guy. For the most part it's just blowing guys is what bi guys like. Bj with a girlfriend would be fun
@ThisAndThat haha thanks 😊@Theshaft169 that doesn't really make a difference... If he is hanging out with his guy friend... He is horny.. I'm not around.. They decide to give a bj for one another.. That's definitely not ok with me ! I consider it as cheating
Yea if they just decided to give each other mutual bjs with you not around that be cheating. If he had a bud and asked if it was ok to suck him off the odd time while hanging out would that be ok? He remains with you and no other girls. Blowing his buddy would be just helping a guy out
Lol... That's definitely still cheating and I could never see it as " helping his buddy out" .. If he wants to help him so bad he can go with him and forget about me.. If he wants me, he should go to "help " anyone out... Its the same if it was a straight guy.. He has a girlfriend but his close friend ( a girl ) asks him for oral.. Its just to help her out though XD I think that's cheating, I could never see it as helping someone out
* he shouldn't go to hell
* to HELP... damn autocorrect XD
You are totally right but i am curious.
You are absolutey right but i am curious.
@tortelina curious about what? 🙈 Dating a bi?
Embarrassed to discuss in public!
@tortelina oh sorry, if you want you can PM me , you can tell me what you mean there 😆 😊
Hahaha looking for some wennies
totally agree with you
wow calm down. You actually think people should die if they don't treat homosexuals as equals? I mean they suck, but telling them to die is waaaaaaaaaaayyyyyy over the top.
You obviously don't realize the chance at catching something do you. Naw you can't
No, I don't, I just got that off of my chest, sorry.
ok yeah i mean telling people to die because of a difference of opinion that doesn't really hurt anyone else is just pretty extreme, even if you are just getting it off your chest. I would never tell anyone to go die because they may be super depressed or something and be like, "yep she's right, time to end it." I mean you're basically then the trigger for that persons death and thus partly responsible and I would feel guilt forever if I had created that outcome.
Sorry, I just typed it...
But! But! I'm a jealous psychopath! That's twice the text messages to spy on! Twice the twitter followers to be like "who the fuck is Whatshisorhername?" Tres exhausting! ;p
Also, whether or not she has been with a girl in the past or not could majorly sway my decision one way or another. If she had only been with guys in the past, than I'd feel much more secure with her as opposed to if she had been with a girl before.
Wait, I don't understand this... The comment on top of you wrote something as well about a threesome, what have threesomes to do with bisexuality? One does not only match with the other whenever the commenter feels like it! Bisexuality just means that a man/female can be in love with both genders, in fact, most of bisexual females prefere, such as heterosexual females, only one partner! Where does threesome mix with bisexuality? Please someone explain me 😂😂😂!!
Because a straight woman isn't going to be as willing--despite most women's natural aversion to threesomes and the like--to have sex with a woman. Naturally, if I wanted to sleep with two women, a straight woman would be less likely to do so than a bisexual woman. I didn't say "I'll get a threesome if I date a bisexual woman," I said, "It would *increase the chances* of getting a threesome."
Nice ink. So would you give or like to give the odd Bj with your boyfriend now and again rather then he off sucking guys on the side him self?Would you expect him to tell you when he did or what he did if he did.
@Theshaft169 if he is dating me, anything on the side, I would either know about, be a part of.. or it would be cheating.If I know about it, then it is ok.If I'm part of it, then it is ok.If he's cheating, well, it really doesn't matter if it's another guy, a girl or even a goat at that point, right?
True. You would be pissed you didn't get to join in on all that goat action ! I would. Ha ha. Kidding. Cheers
Umm, just wanted to point out that bisexuality is an orientation - it refers to what someone is attracted to, NOT to what they do or have done in the past. So someone can identify as bi or gay without ever having had sex with the same sex. I would bet that, due to cultural, moral and religious reasons, many bi people never act on their bisexuality with another person, even though they experience attraction.
Preach, Amiga ❤👍
"... if I were to date a bisexual that would be 2x the competition because he's also attracted to males."Not really, most of us wouldn't have any interest in dating him, it would be maybe 10% more competition.
@ByssheThere's gay and bisexual guys out there than you think and the same for females.
LOL this is true
Competition doesn't matter if the person is loyal. A bisexual person is not more likely to cheat just because they have "more options", it all boils down to their individual understanding of loyalty.
@lumosI understand what you mean but considering I'm a teenager a committed long lasting relationship or marriage is the furthest thing from any of our minds. I'm not saying bisexuals will cheat I'm saying they just have more options period. Teen relationships don't last long to begin with we date for a week, month, or a year at longest. So normally if a teenaged boys sees another girl he's into more it's over now I would have to worry about girls and guys.Maybe my opinion will change once I as well as guys become more mature and we're ready for long lasting relationships but until then I stand by my opinion they will drop us like hotcakes.
Actually you are saying bisexuals are more likely to cheat because you're trying to make the connection that having more options = not worth being in a relationship with. If they won't cheat then why does it matter how many options they have? Bisexuals don't have anything to do with teens being flaky in relationships either, so I don't really understand why that's something you think is worth bringing up.
@lumosActually I'm not. Don't speak for me. I made it clear where I stand. I didn't say "cheat" directly for one. And I also said this only qualifies for teens. Teens don't have long lasting relationships it's as simple as that. Just like guys see other girls they want they dump their girlfriend and move on. Just like girls see other guys they want they dump their boyfriend and move on. Bisexuals do the same they move on whether it's a guy or a girl. Gays move on. Lesbians move on. Transexuals move on!I'm not going to sit here and debate with you about what I said and what I know I meant. How you choose to interprete it is up to you but I'm done.
Then why would you bring up their options in the first place? If everyone is like that then why would it matter? I'm just trying to understand your reasoning.
Sorry about the outburst but it just frustrating. My point is that teenagers are flaky. It's already hard enough to keep guys (or girls) eyes from wondering but I would really start to question our relationship when I see him checking out every girl and guy.Now I'm sure I won't have this problem with a bisexual guy once we're adults. Comittmen won't be an issue period but as of now it is.
@lumos(Read above)Because I've already dealt with girls as competition it's as simpe as that. I've had to my whole life. I'm use to it it's not as much and now you're adding more to the equation. If you add guys to the list there will be more competition. I don't know any other way to explain it. It's like a teenaged boy goes to a candy store and out of all the Reese's cups (girls) he picks me. But a week goes by and he goes back to the store and gets a Hershey bar (boys) and tosses my wrapper to the side.And if you don't understand after this it'll just remain a mystery I have no other way to explain it. My point is I can only deal with so much teens are horny toads and guys being attracted to guys and girls (having more options/getting dumped/or cheated on) is just more than I can handle as of right now.Hopefully that sums it a bit better and sorry for snapping again.
I think a guy would be quite happy to be with you 100% and be happy with blowing the odd guy with you before he would just go find random guys to blow. Im bi , i just enjoy giving the odd guy head. Mind blowing head ! And doing so with my girlfriend would only make our relationship more secure and trusting I think
@Theshaft169So basically you're saying having a 3sum? It's not my cup of tea and if it were I would want the focus on me not the other way around.
Nothing beats blowing a guy with your girlfriend 👍
@RedRobin i agree with you
@Theshaft169 -Sick shit
@puertoriguesa ohhh yea !! Mmm. And then snow ball
@Theshaft169 the question was whether or not you'd date someone who's bi, not whether or not you'd have a threesom with them.
Well pointless if the person you were with was bi but never had any bi fun. I notice so many girls say , " im bi " but have never ever been with a girl so how can they be bi? To be bi you would have to have some involvement with someone so ,,,, why not share with your s/o? Or what? Just expect your partner to be running around on the loose having these bi adventures.
@Theshaft169 if you're bi it means you're attracted to both men and women… you don't necessarily have to have had a relationship with both… maybe those women have just never found a women they liked enough to date, it doesn't mean they don't like women at all
This is why we should ban the humans.
@9mfeo This seems like a plan. I really do wonder about us sometimes.
I know, right? We're doomed. Care to join me in space with my army of alien space cabbages?
@9mfeo That's all I've ever dreamed of O_O
@9mfeo sign me up too
@ClariceOwen23 DOUBLE HURRAY!
Personally I think it's insecurity and jealousy. People can't stand that their lover has more options.
You have no strange or weird feelings of doing oral with same sex along with opposition sex?
@heartnthemiddle they are bi not gender fluid
Same, lmao, I'm surprised by the comments
i know right? then if my boyfriend sees a pretty girl we would both crave her, not only him.
How do you know she would still be craving women? Bisexual people aren't that different from heterosexual people, if they prefer monogamy, then one person will always be enough for them.The same could almost be said about straight men (which would still be ridiculous)? I always see guys on here preaching about how men want variation. Why should I ever be with any man if all he wants is variation, clearly I can't satisfy him?
Ah similar to my issue with dating a bi, as I explained to KDA20
I agree, I don't see why people take offense to this opinion
Satisfy her? You can satisfy a bi girl dude. Work on satisfying her in many ways besides missionary sex and her giving you bjs, give her oral and stuff. If you are scared about not being able to pleasure a girl then you are either boring or selfish (demand her give you bjs but you never return the favor).
@Eric644 lol the hell are you talking about? What I clearly meant is that I wouldn't satisfy a bisexual girl, a. k. a. a lesbian girl. Why? Because I don't understand it, and I wouldn't be able to bring anything to the table since I'm not gay myself, and I don't get lesbian women anyway. You're talking about fucking, and oral sex and lots of shit I didn't even mentioned. Sure, I could have sex with a bi girl any day no prob... But what we're talking about here is being in a relationship or dating a bi girl, something I just wouldn't do.
Why not, bi girls are attracted to men too, if they wanted to commit to a man they will, I was in a very committed relationship with a bi girl once. Trust me, your fears are unfounded.
I get the feeling people would NOT date a bisexual because they're insecure.