I know I dont have high standards, but I do know im having problems with high expectations.. but that normally only a problem after I meet them. m I dont seem to meet anyone interesting.. The only guys Who have shown interest in me are guys im not even a little bit attracted to
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You need to focus on yourself, and the right person will come along. Pursue something you really have a passion for... Yes, it sounds better then actually doing it. Its hard because as human beings we want to feel love and have a lover... Unfortunately life is hard, but only to the extent you want it to be. Meaning that you can control your emotions and how much effort you put into working on yourself. When you love yourself, you really start to worry less about relationships and becoming more alive. Live life, and be kind to those who deserve it. Take risks. Do things you thought youd never do. In this situation I think it all boils down to self esteem, we all have flaws but that doesn't mean we can't work on them. People who say "be happy with who you are" are right in a sense.. But if you don't like something about yourself change it. Don't worry about what anyone else thinks. Once they see that you're happy and living life they will join you. Only you can make yourself happy.. Depending on someone for your happiness causes trouble and heart ache!