The only reason this bothers me is because times are tough right now and he specifically asked to use it for the kids; not for himself. Mind you, he hasn't purchased anything for me at all for Birthdays, Christmas's or our Anniversary since we first got together; which is another reason why this pisses me off. He has always had this kind of "selfish" streak in him where he will go spend loads of money on himself during the holidays, leaving me to purchase almost all the other gifts for our kids, my siblings and mother, and his family combined.
How can I bring it to his attention that he either A) Needs to stop thinking of himself or B) Won't be using my money anymore to buy himself outrageously priced items. (His wish list exceeded $800 on items strictly for himself and this is all my money. He barely makes $150 a week to my $600).