I Guess my question is are women still considered datable after they hit 30?
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I mean, archetypally, or stereotypically if we like, 20 year olds are rather hot, but don't tend to have much going on upstairs. 30 year olds tend to be more distinguished, sometimes at the expense of looks.
Both of these are nonsense in actuality. I want an attractive in shape girl, who has her own mind and character (which is not the same as being successful in 'society'). Age is usually less correlated than we think. A girl who doesn't take care of herself is not attractive at any age, there's just a more forgiving allowance when you're young; same, age isn't necessarily correlated with character, otherwise, we wouldn't live in such a fucked-up world. I want a girl who takes care of herself. Age is a load of bullshit.3
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doesn't master what guys say. most relationships have little age discrepancy. i think guys just want to seem more desirable sod they threaten going after younger women. in reality most younger women dont want a guy who can be their father. some do and once they've had their fill they go younger., some women need t find a guy with money bc they have been blocked from earning their own,. but thats not a preference for older guys.
as women are more and moire assertive and successful age difference is closing in. not that it was ever overwhelmingly protege and distinguished grey. if you ever visit grave yards from centuries ago. the ages are upon average remarkably similar. and the ups and downs are on both sides. there are women older than men significantly.
dating doesn't mean anything. its like saying sex./ most people will have sex with anyone attractive but won't settle with just anyone. sol guys boasting about who they date are just saying who's willing to fuck them., and those women can also be fucking guys their own age.
in settling down older people might want younger people as an idea, but you're people have to be up to it. and starting your life with someone who has already gone halfway through there's, is mot often not preferable., except in cases where the woman has no choice. statistically.
the is why a lot of guys are terrified of equality. they know this will have a drastic impact on their ability to 'pull younger women'. without poverty being an insensitive, everyone is judged on character and looks., not 'money' or supposed status.
independent women dont need older men. being older is not automatically attractive. its just that were still coming off of the tale end of power only being available to women, through their affiliation with m en. thats coming to an end.
i think attraction wise most people would go younger if they could. but personality wise thats not satisfying. and anyhow most people can't do whatever they want. especially the ones thinking theyll date younger for life. it goes away. and dating is not at all the same as partnership. dating is like a phase. it passes.
women and men are dateable at any age. doesn't mean that the people who want to date them, are the ones they want.1