Met this guy on a dating website, and we were talking for a day or two and we got along really well. We had the same interest and he told me he was going to come see me when he gets home from Belgium (he's a marine) and then he slowly started ignoring me.
I'm not an ugly girl... What did I do wrong? Or is he trying to keep his distance?
Most Helpful Guy
He's clearly lost interest. Unless he's stuck in a field somewhere shooting people. Pull back and let him reach back out. If he doesn't, be gracious about it and move on.0
Most Helpful Girl
When someone starts slowly ignoring you it's because they are losing interest. Usually people who use dating websites are in contact with lots of other people too. So they keep their options open. It's enevitable you will get hurt, because you won't be exclusive to him.
Distance yourself from him. If he cares he'll notice. If not, you know where you stand. Then you can move on from him.1