Most Helpful Girl
It's not just about you if you have a baby. That baby will be an actual person that needs to be taken care of. Are you in any position to take care of a baby? Do you have a well-paying full time job? Do you have your own place? Do you have enough money to go without a job for a few months while you're in the late stages of pregnancy and taking care of a newborn? Do you have someone to take care of the baby for you while you are away? Do you have someone to help you take care of the baby while you are at home?
It's not about you, it's a whole other person you'll be dealing with for at least 20 years. So you better have enough resources and knowledge to take care of it.1