Most Helpful Guy
Is he a student too?
He should definitely be paying rent, nobody lives for free, that's a ridiculous claim. You are not getting 'free' rent. Your rent is being covered because you are a student, meaning it is coming out of your tuition payments and is being reflected in the small amount you get as a living allowance. It is not 'free', the cost is just obfuscated by other things. If he is a student, then he should be getting some kind of living expenses as well, which should be going to you as he is not in his own place. If he is NOT a student, then he damn well should be paying something, that's insane. He is just taking advantage of you. You are his girlfriend, so you should subsidize his life and go without so he can have beer? That is a huge red flag, he is showing the signs of a very selfish person that lacks empathy to see your point of view, and lacks the common sense to understand that you are not living for free, but your rent is coming out of other hidden costs.
YOU are not the selfish person, he is. You are not being unfair, he is taking advantage of you.1THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE
Most Helpful Girl
That's bullshit of him. I mean I'm not going to flat say he owes you half the rent but at the VERY least he needs to be picking up all the bills. It isn't his business that your parents pay the rent... Plus they really don't pay your utilities and he is using the utilities when you aren't there running the cost higher for you. BS if he refuses break up with him and kick his ass out or at the very least kick him out. In either situation if he breaks up with you then so much the better. He wasn't into you and is just going to move on to his next meal ticket.2THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE