Most Helpful Guy
He was not protecting his kid by not telling you. He protects his kids by not introducing them to you, So it was purely for other reasons. Basically to get yo in bed before you found out. You should dump him, although that may have been his plan anyway. Get you in bed then tell you something to get you out of his life.
Most Helpful Girl
Well it all depends. Could be either honestly but I don't think most guys would do that to someone, how does that help them in anyway by not telling you they have kids? Maybe he's just an overprotective father and he may have some reason behind that that he's never mentioned before? I don't think you should stop talking to him just because he has kids, that's sad. He's probably sturggling to find a good mom for them I bet he's a great guy and father just looking out for his kids. I'd give him another chance especially if you had a connection. You may find to live his kids and maybe even have one of your own