Tonight at dinner he kept making comments (in front of his parents and brothers) saying that I needed to stop eating so much because I was going to make the baby fat. He then proceeded to take my fork from me. He got pissed when I walked away from the table and refused to eat the rest of my dinner.
Now we are back home and he was having left over pie from Thanksgiving. I simply asked him what kind of pie he was eating and he said "Whatever type of fucking pie I want". I just looked away from him and kept my mouth shut. Once again he got pissed and told me to go the fuck to bed and stop being a "crank ass".
There's no way that he doesn't know it bothers me. How can I tell him to stop being a dickhead?
Most Helpful Guy
WTF! What an ass. Eating plenty is crucial for the development of the baby. U r eating for 2 people so u should eat plenty for the baby to be healthy. Going hungry is not good when u r pregnant. He should also be considerate of your emotional ups and downs since pregnancy brings a tornado of emotions and it realy can't be helped so he just has to put up with it. Of course there are boundaries and u may become a little pissed with eachother but i think he has crossed the line.4
Most Helpful Girl
If you weren't already having this guys kid, I'd tell you to dump him and move on. I care more that you're pregnant now, but even if you weren't, that is beyond rude and insensitive and being a dick and seeing as how as you say this happens to you quite often, it sounds like this was his personality before you were pregnant too, but maybe worse now. Every sane and rational man knows you never take a fork from a pregnant woman unless you intend to get stabbed by it, let alone insult her. I'm sorry, your boyfriend has no clue and is not that great of a person to begin with. If anything, sit him down and have a looooooong talk with him about what it means to be pregnant, and if that doesn't get through to him, I really don't know what will.2