Most Helpful Guy
Yes, I agree with the other comments, you have been only texting for too long. You need to physically met and get this off the ground.1THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE
Most Helpful Girl
I think there's only so much you can talk about over text with a person you haven't actually met yet. I think the best way to do online dating is to text for a couple days, and then meet and see if there's a real connection. Texting for a month sort of... makes things boring I think.
Has he suggested meeting earlier on and you didn't want to? In that case, I could see him maybe being bored with all the texting and feeling like you don't actually want to meet, but just want a pen pal or something. I don't know.
If you feel like you'd get along well, there's no harm in going on a date with him (in a public place) and seeing how things go. You'll get a better indicator of what kind of a person this guy is by actually talking and interacting with him. Until then, he's allowed to be active on online dating sites.0THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE