Do you think your physical features have prevented you from finding love?

For example, you literal can't find a guy/girl to even want to flirt with you because your overweight or too big or too thin or too anything. Maybe you wear glasses and that turn guys off from even! lIt could be the based on the facts that you have a small group of friends and it makes you look bad. Or, maybe you have zits all over your face and there's nothing you can do about it. Or, maybe you haven't figure out your life out or you don't have money to afford the nicest clothes or you just simply can't make time for nonsense! < yes I know thats not physical but still added it anyway!


0|0
1738

Most Helpful Guy

Most Helpful Girl

  • No, I've never had a problem with love or relationships. Everything I thought was terrible about myself was everything my husband loves about me. I think anyone feeling unloved because of a feature just hasn't found anyone to love them the way they need to be loved.

    1|0
    0|0
    THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE

Recommended Questions

Have an opinion?

What Guys Said 37

  • No, that is not a reason at all. I believe I am good looking both on the inside and outside as well, so my physical features are not a for me not finding love. I do believe in love/true love but I never want to be in love, so it's a choice for me. It's hard to explain.

    1|0
    0|0
  • I think it has. I am below average height (5'6 1/2) which is a turn off for a lot of girls, EVEN IF THEY'RE SHORT TOO. That can be annoying. I have a pretty athletic body, but I have one more feature going against me: I'm black. Believe it or not, being black in a white school/community lowers ones chance of finding a lady to date or hook up with significantly. Oh well.

    1|0
    0|0
    • really? I am sorry! I have seen many black guys with hispanic! lol maybe try us!

    • Show All
    • Oh ouch! I am sorry...

    • It's fine I guess :(

  • Yes, probably. But I think that it happened more in the past, when I was fat. Today I realize I'm enjoying a bit more of female attention, principally from younger girls (not too younger, don't worry xD).

    1|0
    0|0
    • I am worried! haha~! lol

    • Show All
    • No, I'm actually 21... I can't seem to look younger :(

    • hahah! lol ): Poor apple solider!

  • Lol I have the full package - not good looking, not fit (but I'm slowly going there) and no friends. At least I don't have zits.

    2|0
    0|0
  • in my case, yes. I used to exercise, shave, look clean... girls always approached me. Now I over work, look terribly exhausted, stopped shaving, no more muscles... no girl wants me except as a funny friend. Just be happy and take care of your body cause physical attractiveness has much importance plus it will get you a better looking guy whether you like this idea or not.

    1|0
    0|0
  • More from Guys
    32

What Girls Said 16

  • Eh, I used to. Now... I don't care. I love me. I think I'm cool and would be an amazing girlfriend. If a guy can't love me because of my flaws then whatever, I'll take the cute guy standing behind him that doesn't give a shit.

    https://cdn.meme.am/instances/500x/29385308.jpg

    2|0
    0|0
  • i dunno. perhaps i have resting bitch face.

    cdn.someecards.com/.../...u-young-pretty-12e7f.png

    1|2
    0|0
    • Perhaps it's friend-zoning syndrome

    • Show All
    • The whole friend zone thing is a myth. But like you mentioning resting bitch face, I wonder if me being stoic, unintentionally, turns women off. People have told me I don't smile and asked if I'm mad when I'm not and it's puzzling. I guess it just feels weird to force a smile.

    • @bloodmountain1990 i agree. it's weird to force a smile. but... maybe we should lol. being stoic might just make you seem like you don't want to be approached/bothered.

  • I don't know what's wrong with me. Guys in my age group aren't really attracred to me. Some guys say I'm cute, pretty, etc. The only real problem is I'm not hot. I don't take pictures with my bum on the sink, or in a bra an pantys. I don't like that you get the wrong attention for that stuff. Boys at my school love it. I like me the way I am showing some skin shouldn't make me more attractive.

    1|1
    0|0
    • Thats true you don't want sacrifice yourself for attention!

  • I honestly believe the most attractive thing about anyone is whether or not they have confidence. Guys that I have initially not found necessarily attractive ended up being guys I have developed real feelings towards and even dated just because they seem comfortable with themselves no matter what. They always had a good time and therefore I always wanted to be around them.

    1|0
    0|0
  • Yea, I'm trying not to wear makeup because I want my face not to be full of it but I'll probably be wearing it because I'm very insecure about my acne. I'm insecure about my body as well. I don't really go to the beach that often because I'm not happy with the way I look in a bikini. I have started working out in hopes to be happier with my body. I'm shy, but as you get to know me I'm outgoing. People don't see that because they don't take the chance to get to know me. That could be from them judging me on my outward appearance and what they know about me already. They know me as being smart. So they basically label me as a nerd because of that. I feel that being smart plays a factor as well. It might drive away some guys because they don't want to date a girl who is smarter than them. I have also had bad experience with guys in the past and I have no idea why. It still lingers in my mind and I think that's how it's going to be with all guys. My insecurities, shyness, past, and negativity are preventing me from finding love. If I felt better in my own skin and got rid of the bad things, I might be able to find love.

    1|1
    0|0
    • You may be a nerd, but you're a beautiful nerd. And being a nerd isn't bad anyway.

  • More from Girls
    11

Recommended myTakes

Loading...