Is it ok to get into a relationship while other guys are interested in me?
In school I'm kind of popular. Well I'm not popular, but I am. I'm 100% introverted, weird, and nerdy so I never hung out with the "cool" crowd. However, according to my friends I'm super pretty. So I'm pretty much queen of the losers. I have tons of friends, and there are some guys who like me. There's one guy who wants to take me on a date Friday, another guy who literally carries me to class and pretty much guards me from other boys, another guy who is always bringing me snacks, another guy who has tried to kiss me twice, another guy who is begging for my phone number (I didn't give it to him cause he's kinda rude), a soccer player who calls me babe and blows kisses to me from across the classroom, and last but not least my friend who lives in the same neighborhood as me named Shane. Shane just asked me out the other day and I told him to give me some time to think about it. I just feel really bad if I start a relationship with him with all these other guys trying to get my attention. It feels kind of harsh. I feel like it would be weird. These guys literally do so much to try to get my attention. They have literally fought over me. One of them bought me a ticket and begged me to go with him to a school dance (I went). I know I sorta sound like a bitch, but I'm not. Most of my friends are guys and most of these guys started off as friends and then they caught feelings. I never meant for this to happen, but it did, and nowI feel awful.
Are all the good guys/ girls already taken? What is a instant turn-on for you? Is the "I want to focus on my career" excuse a cowards way of avoiding a relationship or a valid excuse? A guy I like is not willing to pursue me because of a driving distance of two hours. Bullshit or valid excuse? Why do men feel they need to protect their girl?
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