He invited me for a BTTF themed night and literally no one he plays with came. There's usually 15 of them. I didn't want to give him a hard time and wasn't upset because I thought maybe they all just flaked for some reason that night (other than me).
But it as I got to thinking about it it just seemed highly unlikely. He also invited me on a boat trip one time then snuck out of my house the morning of to go without me. He said the boat was a rental and they ran out of seats. I found out later by accident when his friend from college was in town and said let's go out on your boat. His boat that he couldn make a seat for me on.
Why hey would a guy act this way? I've had some misdealings in life with men but this takes the cake.