But I just don't really understand what he meant by saying he's still "figuring things out". Does he like me or is he just playing the field? (Though he said he likes me and felt that I'm interesting, I'm not sure what kinda like he really meant) Also, tho he has been pretty respectful, he's often suggestive. Is it a normal thing to talk about sexual stuff with a girl, or does it means that this is a red flag of him actually being really sexual?
Last but not least, is it possible for us to have a long relationship, and what might be the things he is looking for?
I don't know if I should continue going out with this guy, cuz I don't wanna be hurt badly if it turns out that he didn't like me at all, but just wanna flirt and hook up with girls.
Most Helpful Guy
I think he needs to be more specific since figuring things out could mean anything, such as he's figuring things out between you and him or he's figuring things out if this is a good relationship or something else, since there enough information as well as your phrase I'm not sure what kinda like he really meant leads that you have doubts on him. i would give it a stead relationship approach to see how things go no sexual things until you feel you can trust him again
Most Helpful Girl
He does seem interested. Either he is taking it slowly, which is fine, or he will not decide to be in a relationship. He is literally just trying to figure out what he wants.