Is it shallow to want to date someone not as attractive because it could make them happy?

I have low self esteem and I only care about personality. I like a girl because of her personality and feel I could make her happy. I feel like family would wonder why I'm dating her. I feel like if me dating her makes her happy and since I like her it's a win win. Is this shallow?


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  • It makes no sense to me. But no, I don't consider it more shallow than I'd consider anything else.


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