I have been dating my boyfriend for about 1 month plus. However, I find that we have nothing to talk to each other about. Most of the time I have been coming up with open-ended questions, and most of the time we always ask each other daily questions such as "what r u doing?" "have u eaten" etc. I have a feeling that the reason why we have nothing to say is because our lifestyles are too different. We don't call each other through phones (usually communicate through whatsapp and meet-ups), and some of our friends said it's weird, so I decided to call him (twice), and usually we ended up in silence. This was the same thing that happened to me and my ex. I'm afraid of losing my current boy now :(
How am I suppose to overcome this obstacle?
PS: I did discuss this to him, but still we didn't come up with any solutions. I feel so helpless. Can you help me? ^^
Most Helpful Guy
You could talk about music, TV, politics, sex, friends, movies, travel, school, work, family, problems, dreams, sex, hopes, fears, ambitions, desires, children, animals, games, sports, concerts, art, etc.
And sex. There's never a shortage of things to talk about. :)0
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Most Helpful Girl
You can actually talk about anything. Anything.
Ask him his opinion on various subjects. They are never-ending.
How long have you guys been together?0