I was seeing a guy for 5 months but ended it as the man seemed to be taking advantage a bit. He had a disc removed from his spine last year and told me that he will probably just claim disability benefits indefinitely and never work, he would call his mother to clean his apartment and id pick him up and leave him home. He would get his brother who suffers from Ms to drive him about also. I just felt that he was taking advantage as he could walk to the bar, play x box all day and have us all run to him, as a single mother, I just couldn't do it? What do u think?