Most Helpful Guy
Yes, it's too old. Every 90 year old has had the same friends for 70+ years.
Most Helpful Girl
Hanging out with family is not selfish. Perhaps they just have outgrown the lifestyle of going out all the time with friends (or even some times) I'm 23 and for the first time finally have friends that I go out with regularly and am more active than I ever have been.
There's groups on craigslist that you can find that have similar interests as you or you can make friends at work (assuming you work)